Andrew Wetzel's Musings

November 30, 2023

2023 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers: The Seller

“The NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS (NAR) Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers is an annual survey of recent home buyers and sellers who completed a transaction between July 2022 and June 2023. The report has been published since 1981…. The survey contained 129 questions”.

The over-arching theme is that, while the pandemic is over, the housing market “offers limited housing inventory and affordability constraints”. Your experience may be different so I recommend talking to a Real Estate professional to see what is going on in your local market.

Today’s focus is sellers.

Here are some seller highlights:

  • the typical seller was 60 years old, the same as last year;
  • 63% stayed within the same state and moved a median of 35 miles. Last year the numbers were 24% and 90 miles;
  • the top reasons to sell were the desire to be close to friends and family (23%), to purchase a larger home (13%) and a change in family situation (10%);
  • the typical sellers owned their home for 10 years, which has remained steady;
  • 39% bought a larger home, 33% bought a smaller home and 28% purchased the same size home;
  • 48% did minor renovations before selling, 41% sold “as-is” and 12% did major renovations;
  • 89% of sellers used a Real Estate agent, up from 87% last year;
  • 7% sold on their own, an all-time low and down from 10% last year, and 57% already knew their buyer;
  • sellers typically received their full asking price with a third receiving more than their asking price;
  • private/ For Sale By Owner (FSBO) sales sold for a median of $310,000 compared to agent-assisted sales at $405,000;
  • homes were on the market for a median of two weeks, the same as last year;
  • 92% of sellers were at least somewhat satisfied with the selling process;
  • sellers relied on professionals for pricing their homes competitively, marketing and selling within a specific time frame.

One major take-away that seems consistent over my years in Real Estate is the wide disparity in selling prices between Real Estate – assisted sales and those achieved by private sellers. Sellers working with a Real Estate professional have more exposure (marketers call it “eye-balls”) through the multiple listing service, generally offer some compensation to agents representing buyers (many FSBO’s will not) and possess the experience, education and training that typical private sellers do not.

That being said, people have their reasons for wanting to undertake such a potentially complex process on their own. Private sales often involve sales where the seller knows their buyer and other situations where perhaps maximizing the selling price is not the goal. To each their own I suppose. Most sellers I have met want to mazimize their “return”, especially if they are using their “equity” to buy their “next home”.

Remember, when it comes to selling or buying what is likely your biggest asset and largest overall investment of money, time and effort …

There is no time for inexperience, empty promises OR false expectations!

HIRE WISELY:  We are notall the same“.

2023 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers: The Buyer.

“The NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS (NAR) Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers is an annual survey of recent home buyers and sellers who completed a transaction between July 2022 and June 2023. The report has been published since 1981…. The survey contained 129 questions”.

The over-arching theme is that, while the pandemic is over, the housing market “offers limited housing inventory and affordability constraints”. Your experience may be different so I recommend talking to a Real Estate professional to see what is going on in your local market.

Today’s focus is buyers, both first-time and repeat.

Here are some buyer highlights:

  • the typical home buyer had a household income of $107,000, up from $88,000 last year;
  • buyers preferred the suburbs (47% compared to 39% last year) but less than the historic 50%;
  • first-time buyers made up 32% of the market, the fourth lowest share in more than four decades,  compared to the historic low of 26% last year. The economy has greatly impacted this group;
  • the median age for first-time buyers was 35, 58 for repeat buyers;
  • 59% of all buyers were married couples, the lowest share since 2010, 19% were single females, 10% were single males and 9% were unmarried couples;
  • 70% of buyers did not have a child under the age of 18 in their home;
  • 81% of buyers were white, down from 88% last year;
  • 16% were veterans with 2% being active-duty service members;
  • 26% of all buyers said the primary reason for buying a home was the desire to own their own home. The number was 60% for first-time buyers.
  • other buyer motivations included: being near friends and family and owning a larger home;
  • the median distance between the former and the new home was 20 miles, down from 50 last year but higher than past surveys when the number was 15 miles;
  • 13% of homes purchased were new, 87% were previously-owned. Price was a determining factor;
  • 79% of homes purchased were detached, single-family;
  • 60% said the quality of the neighborhood was the most important factor determining the location with 45% mentioning convenience to family and friends and 39% mentioning overall affordability;
  • buyers typically paid the full asking price with 25% paying more than the full asking price;
  • buyers expected to remain in their home for a median of 15 years with 22% saying they would never move;
  • 41% started their search for property listings online while 20% contacted a Real Estate agent;
  • 90% found their agent to be a very or somewhat useful source of information;
  • the typical search took 10 weeks, the same as last year, and buyers looked at a median of 7 homes;
  • 59% reported the most difficult task as being finding the right home;
  • all buyers used the internet at some point and cited photos and detailed information as most valuable;
  • 92% were at least somewhat satisfied with the home-buying process;
  • 89% used an agent, up from 86% last year, 6% purchased directly from the owner;
  • 50% said they needed an agent to help them find the right home, followed by helping them understand the process, providing the names of service providers and negotiating better terms;
  • 80% of home buyers financed their purchase, up from 78% last year and down from 87% in 2021;
  • first-time buyers typically had an 8% down payment, the highest since 1997 when it was 9%, while repeat buyers typically had a 19% down payment, the highest since 2005 when it was 21%;
  • 54% of buyers used their savings for a down payment with 23% using a gift or a loan from family or friends while 53% of repeat buyers used proceeds from selling a home;
  • 38% of first-time buyers said that saving for a down payment was the most difficult step in the process;
  • 82% of all buyers viewed a home purchase as a good investment.

One statistic that was not mentioned is how many weeks a typical buyer spent getting ready to formally start the process. Historically, these surveys showed that buyers spent about three weeks before contacting a Real Estate agent. During that time they looked online and did other things to identify houses to consider, including visiting open houses and requesting showings. While their choice, I have met a number of prospective buyers over the years who learned that they needed to do “some work” to qualify for financing or, even worse, learned that buying a home was not possible in the short-term.

The three weeks they spent “getting ready” delayed their eventual plans or were a waste of time. Sadly, some agents will show houses and spend time with prospects who have not taken the steps to acquire financing. Most sellers will not respond to an offer without evidence of financing. It must be frustrating to find a house you really like and then have to wait to arrange financing while other “better-prepared” buyers have a chance to put a house under contract that you really like.

There is enough information available so buyers should know how to start the process. Real Estate professionals must guide them once a prospective buyer contacts them.

Remember, when it comes to buying or selling what is likely your biggest asset and largest overall investment of money, time and effort …

There is no time for inexperience, empty promises OR false expectations!

HIRE WISELY:  We are notall the same“.

November 7, 2023

I Finally Felt Like a Seller

It took more than 26 years working in Real Estate and meeting with and working for hundreds of homeowners but I finally got to experience some of what many sellers have to deal with when trying to sell their homes. Sure, I understood logically what selling your home might feel like. I know the process, the forms and have seen what can go right and what can go wrong. I have mediated disputes between sellers and buyers since 2002. I have also served on every level of my REALTOR Association’s Professional Standards Committee so I am very familiar with disputes between agents and their clients. But I was never actually involved on the selling end.

I have had numerous discussions, often emotional, with sellers concerning their frustrations and anxiety but living through it reinforced what I have tried to provide as far as advice although I better understand the process now. How a seller handles and manages the selling process and their emotions depends on their circumstances and their personality. Selling your own home or the estate of a relative or friend is different from selling an investment property. It is more “personal”.

Years ago, my mother-in-law told me that she wanted me to sell her home when the time came. This was after my father-in-law died. I guess I assumed that she would be alive and moving to her next home when the time came. Unfortunately, that was not the case. I listed and sold her estate, the house my wife and her eight brothers and sisters grew up in and where I had spent many holidays and family gatherings. My wife was the executrix which added to the process even if I were not the actual seller.

After hearing about my experiences with listing and selling Real Estate and working with buyers over the years, my wife got a formal introduction into what I do. Starting with discussing the house, marketing, comparable sales, the paperwork including the property disclosure and what can happen leading up to settlement, we began the process. My wife was objective so the emotion was minimized.

Fortunately, the location and the house generated a lot of interest. That being said, I got to experience firsthand how a “seller” reacts to scheduling appointments, receiving feedback and actual showings. There were issues, more like inconveniences than major problems, since the house was empty so showings were easy to schedule. We weren’t there so we do not know when agents actually showed up but feedback suggested that all but one did show up. One agent did not show up or cancel which we learned when he rescheduled his showing hours after he was supposed to be there. When these things happen in an occupied house it can cause problems.

One thing that happened on several occasions was agents not properly securing the house. The house has two “Dutch” doors, meaning they are split in half with each portion operating separately. That can be nice when you want fresh air. The downside is that each of the four sections has to be secured. On several occasions, the top portion of the front door was not secured which could have been a problem.

Over the years a number of my seller-clients have found a door not locked, lights left on, agents coming late or agents not showing up at all. Needless to say these can make an already potentially emotional process even worse. I find it unfortunate, even sad, that we have to warn clients about these and other “possibilities”. Many of my sellers have lived out-of-state which can magnify their anxiety. Perhaps, one day, all agents will treat a seller’s property with the respect they deserve. I can only hope!

There is no time for inexperience, empty promises or false expectations!

HIRE WISELY:  We are notall the same”!

November 3, 2023

Compensation in Real Estate

Suppose you contacted me to discuss my helping you sell your home or any piece of Real Estate. What would you think if I told you that I could greatly increase your proceeds by reducing what you expected to pay me by my not using a portion of my fee to pay the agent representing the buyer? Would you be thrilled or skeptical?

There are different business models for compensating Real Estate agents. Our rules and regulations require that we disclose how we are paid and that the fee is negotiable. Having the seller pay a negotiated commission or fee to their listing broker/ agent at settlement or the closing of a sale remains the most common. In turn, the listing broker would offer compensation to the buyer broker/ agent who got the property sold and settled. That offer is an incentive to show and sell Real Estate.

While that business model makes sense and has worked for years, as I will explain, over the years many have questioned having a seller provide the compensation that would ultimately end up paying the buyer’s agent. That “question” finally caused enough of a stir that a major change has occurred with respect to compensation.

My local MLS, and I suspect many others, adopted a change to how properties are listed in the MLS. As stated in a recent release to agents, the MLS now will “allow users to enter any amount in a listing’s cooperative compensation fields. Prior to this update, the cooperative compensation fields required entry of at least one cent….. the fields will allow any amount, from zero and up.” The release went on to explain the change as allowing “subscribers to engage in transparent negotiations with their clients.” That seems logical, doesn’t it?

Real Estate agents have two commodities to trade for the opportunity to earn a fee or commission. One is our time, meaning that any time we devote to developing leads and working with prospects, customers and clients has to be invested wisely as the amount of time we have is finite. Time management is one of many topics we have to master. How much is our time worth? Can we differentiate between important tasks and urgent ones? How is our time best spent? Some agents have a better handle on this than others.

One of our challenges is to evaluate which clients to accept based on the likely outcome of our working for them. It boils down to probability:  am I likely to sell a client’s house or is a buyer likely to buy a house? Of course, this is a “people business”. Nothing is guaranteed and we will all spend some time for which we know we will not be compensated. The goal is to manage our time as best we can or at least recognize when “time” spent is becoming a concern such as when it distracts us from more efficient and effective pursuits. It can be a balancing act. Of course, discrimination is NEVER acceptable.

The other commodity we have to trade is the combination of our experience, training, education, knowledge, ability and resources. Our actual experience is only one part of the equation as some of us spend a lot of time, money and effort to continue learning so that we are better prepared to protect and promote the best interests of our clients. While some clients may be more self-sufficient than others, perhaps minimizing what we need to do for them, others are less so and will need more of our time as we advise and counsel them.

One of the basic requirements of Real Estate is that commissions are negotiable. In fact, when a group of agents get together we are NOT allowed to discuss commission as doing so may be perceived as collusion. Offices and companies set their rates or fees and may or may not allow their agents the flexibility to charge what they can or need to in order to acquire clients. There is more to our fees than simply comparing one company to another. Are we a valued and unique resource or just a commodity?

Since my first day in Real Estate I have heard that our fees were under assault. Different business models have come and gone, each trying to capture market share. Many which focused on low or “discounted fees” compared to their competition have not survived. This often involved eliminating or limiting certain services such as “representation” to offset the lower fee, perhaps even going below our minimum standards established by states and, if the agents are REALTORS, the Code of Ethics, for representing clients. This is not retail; it is a service business. Some consumers do not value our services as highly as others, reducing our role to preparing documents and unlocking doors, while others demand a lot of our time, seemingly expecting to learn everything we know regardless of whether or not their situation requires it or how serious they are about selling or buying.

The word “commission” is an interesting one as is the concept of only getting paid when a house is sold and settled regardless of how much time and effort we have invested or whether or not the seller and buyer were really motivated to get it done. Many sales fall through when a buyer cannot get a loan or when the two parties cannot agree as to how to address an issue such as a home inspection list. Sometimes people just “change their mind”. Even if a sale falls through during or just prior to settlement, there is typically no compensation paid. That is part of what we have to accept when we enter Real Estate. Some companies collect part of their fee upfront to offset the impact of sales falling through. That is an option that a client has to evaluate when considering whom to “hire”.

The commission or “fee” is a marketing expense, a cost of doing business. The real question is can we achieve an outcome for the seller that offsets and justifies our fee or could they have achieved the same result without our services? I understand that buyers and sellers would prefer to pay less rather than more. Everyone likes a bargain.

From the buyer’s perspective, many sellers indirectly pay the buyer’s broker/ agent through their listing broker although the fee comes from the funds offered by the buyer. From the seller’s perspective, the less they pay, the more they walk away with. If we are just a commodity, meaning “all the same”, the goal should be to pay as little as possible. However, we are not all the same:  some are better; others worse!

What is the reality? Some sellers will select an agent based solely on their fee. I subscribe to the philosophy that you get what you pay for. If an agent is willing to accept less than their competition or if they need to charge less to attract business, perhaps they are not as capable of earning the trust and respect of prospective clients let alone achieving the same results as their more expensive competition. Sellers might want to question the negotiating skills of an agent who accepts a lower fee to acquire a new client:  how hard will they negotiate your selling price? Of course, in some markets houses sell fast regardless of marketing while, in others, selling seems impossible. Everyone needs to know their local market!

Respectfully, sellers need to know their competition and how the market works. Part of the fee negotiated and earned by the listing broker will be offered as an incentive for buyer agents to want to show and sell the listing agent’s property listing. The amount offered is determined by the agent and the seller but, if it is not competitive with other listings that a buyer’s agent might show their clients, the seller’s house might sit on the market longer than it should. Houses with a high “days on the market” can become stigmatized, meaning that buyers and their agents wonder why someone has not bought it. Even worse, houses that go under contract and then come back on the market may be thought to have repair issues. Houses that do not sell often require a price reduction to generate interest. How does a price reduction compare to the fee the seller thought they saved?

Assuming that a buyer has “hired” an exclusive agent to represent their best interests, the buyer and their agent should have agreed to a fee owed to the agent at settlement. “Hiring” a buyer’s agent, as with “hiring” a listing agent, technically requires a contract spelling out the agreement and how the fee is earned. A handshake or verbal agreement may not be enforceable.

If the contract allows the buyer’s agent to accept compensation from the listing agent, it may well include a provision that requires the buyer to personally make up any difference between what they agreed to pay their agent and what the listing broker is offering in the MLS. The question then becomes why would a buyer pay “fair market value” for a house and still be willing to pay a portion of their own agent’s fee? While there are ways to address this, a buyer may simply avoid the situation by requesting NOT to see houses that may require their own “contribution”. As a listing agent, I want buyer agents to want to show and help me sell my inventory! Money is a great incentive! Few sales involve “dual agency” meaning having the listing broker or agent produce the buyer for their own listings but that is beyond my focus here although I have Blogged and Podcasted about it.

One idea I hear from time to time is that the seller and buyer should each compensate their own agent. I recently posted a Blog and a Podcast covering that topic. It sounds simple and fair, doesn’t it? Does the typical buyer have the funds to do this? In my experience, buyers are really financing their own agent’s compensation as part of their mortgage. The fee paid to the listing agent comes from the sale unless the seller owes more than their proceeds.

In addition, historically, meaning prior to the change mentioned at the beginning of this post, our regional MLS required listing brokers using the MLS to advertise, expose and promote their property listings to offer some amount of compensation to the buyer’s agents who successfully “procures” a buyer for their listing. The answer for some brokers is to keep their listings off the MLS rather than having to compensate the buyer’s agent. These are called “office exclusives”. Can the listing agent offer the same exposure as the regional MLS? That is doubtful especially since no “public advertising” is allowed for off-MLS listings. Exposure creates competition! If they cannot generate the same exposure, will the seller achieve a lower selling price? If so, how does that loss compare to the perceived commission savings? Either way, listing agents should respond to all inquiries even though they are not offering compensation. I doubt that any seller, even those not willing to compensate a buyer’s agent, would expect their listing agent to prevent buyer agents from other companies from showing their property to their buyer-clients. That would make no sense.

When I talk to prospective seller-clients I need to gather information. Prior to our actually meeting, I need to learn what I can so that I can prepare a market analysis for their house so that I have some idea about the possible range of asking and selling prices. I also check the compensation offered to buyer agents and share that information with my prospective clients. At our meeting, I need to walk through the house to see how it compares to others on the market, “under contract” and recently sold so that I can better assess its marketability and pricing. In addition, I need to discuss the seller’s motivation:  are they more focused on the price achieved or the length of time it takes to sell, their expectations as far as asking and selling prices and whether we can work together. There is a lot more to taking a property listing than just signing paperwork. I need to make sure that my clients understand the market, the process, the paperwork and how and why I do what I do. A significant part of this is explaining the commission and how it works:  it is more than just an expense. Do they understand the need to compete with other available listings, do they value what we do and do they value my time? If not, I need to make a decision as do they.

I have read a number of studies and articles over the years and reviewed thousands of MLS printouts for properties that did not sell and believe that the amount of compensation offered to buyers’ agents has an impact on showing activity, how long it takes to go “under contract” and the eventual selling price. This does not mean that there is no room for negotiation. I have at times been willing to accept less for my role but will not risk harming a seller-client by not having what I offer a buyer agent compete with comparable available listings.

While I respect different business models, I have two concerns about a seller and listing agent being able to market a property without offering any compensation to a buyer agent. Generally speaking, I am not sure that all agents adequately explain what we do, especially when it comes to the matter of compensation. I have spoken to many sellers whose prior listing agents did not offer a competitive fee to the market. Many of these sellers claimed that they only saw the chance to save money without understanding the ramifications. How many agents will suggest offering no compensation to buyers’ agent under the new rules? How many sellers will only see added proceeds? That remains to be seen.

In addition, I see a problem on the buyer side. I have previously taught the required core course for the ABR, or Accredited Buyer Representative, course. Every time I taught the two-day course, we had discussions about using the approved representation contract and I always had one or more students say they did not use them. That led to further discussion. Of course, our rules and regulations require using a formal contract to represent a client. Absent a contract, you are working with a “customer” and the list of what you can do is greatly diminished. The most significant part of the relationship affected was the compensation:  if an agent did not have a written contract specifying their fee and how it was earned and paid, the agent technically had to accept whatever was shown in the MLS at the time a purchase offer was presented to the listing agent. While there was a general range of such compensation that I have seen over the years, it was NEVER ZERO.

I have heard and understand that some buyer agents are intimidated with the process of getting a contract signed and that some buyers refuse to sign one. I suspect that will continue as long as some agents are willing to work without a contract. However, I do not suspect that listing agents have the same mindset.

Imagine being a buyer agent working without a contract who has one or more “customers” who want to see properties with no offer of compensation. Will they show them? Will those properties sit on the market unsold and accumulating “days on the market”, perhaps needlessly reducing their asking prices?

Call me a dreamer but perhaps buyer agents will ultimately stop working without a formal contract and being willing to accept whatever a listing agent thinks their time and effort are worth. The problem is what happens “in between”?

As I hope I have explained, there is much more to selling Real Estate than deciding how much commission you want to spend. The fee is a marketing expense and a cost of doing business. Owners may try selling on their own but without professional representation they may lack the expertise needed to navigate the selling process. Without the MLS they may lack the exposure to the public that creates competition.

In the most common business model, sellers only pay us if and when we succeed. Studies over the years have shown that houses offering lower commissions to buyer agents tend to take longer to sell. While we all want to save money, there is nothing wrong with that, but signing a listing contract based on a low commission may not work. I have seen the same result time and again:  a low commission is offered to buyer agents, those houses may get shown but not sold and the listing agent asks for a price reduction which more than likely offsets any perceived commission savings. While the new price may appear attractive, the commission has not changed so the house may continue to sit unsold. Be careful what you wish for!

Remember, when it comes to selling or buying what is typically your biggest asset and largest overall investment of money, time and effort,

There is no time for inexperience, empty promises or false expectations!

HIRE WISELY:  We are notall the same”!

Competing Against Multiple Bidders

A recent article posted on RETechnology.com discussed a survey conducted by the WAV group which pointed out several “truths” about multiple offers and how losing buyers feel afterwards. They included:

  1. The intense competition seen recently is rare and driven by low inventory and “pent-up” post-pandemic demand. In the recent past, historically low interest rates created a wave of buyers;
  2. The competition was typically viewed as “unfair” to buyers frustrated by losing bid after bid. Some question whether they really had a chance to “win”. I am not sure what they meant by “unfair”:  did something wrong really happen?
  3. Competing with “unknown” buyers and offers is difficult as is trying to craft a winning bid.

Here is a breakdown of their responses.

  1. Almost 51% of respondents said they faced competition; 38% said they were not sure. The results were the same across races. Exactly how did they “know”? I will explore that later.
  2. Over 46% felt they had an “equal opportunity” to win, slightly higher among white buyers (49% vs. 45%). Again, how did they know this?
  3. As far as how they felt about their “chances”, most of the white buyers said they were outbid while 68% of them felt that finances were at fault when the process was unfair. Cash offers and investors were viewed as having an advantage with financing. Some felt that a seller “favored” their buyer or had bad Real Estate advice.
  4. 62% of minority buyers also cited finances as being the difference with cash buyers and investors being part of the issue. 6% felt some discrimination with some saying some areas were “out of their league”, with marital status and occupation being factors.

Let me start by saying that multiple offer situations sound fantastic for sellers and dreadful for buyers. Maybe; maybe not. There is no “one size fits all” description and feelings about them likely fit a combination of how one feels when they learn that there is competition and then how it turns out for them.

“Multiple offers” simply means that more than one buyer is interested in the same house. This is NOT retail so there may not be more than one house of a certain type to be bought. So, is the interest due to the number of buyers exceeding the supply of houses or due to low inventory and sellers simply not wanting to sell/ move? Low interest rates and pent-up demand can shift the balance as can having sellers properly price their homes compared to their competition. Alternatively, high interest rates and sellers being comfortable in their homes can suppress inventory. Supply and demand may fluctuate and be unpredictable:  do buyers or sellers wait to see what happens next? You cannot “time the market”. I always tell my clients to do what is in their best interests. That being said, some will regret their decisions later:  interest rates and prices may rise affecting buyers; the supply of buyers may decline and prices to buy their “next” home may rise affecting sellers.

Let’s focus on there being competition. My first question is always this:  is there competition? How do you know? Having multiple people at an open house or an individual showing is not conclusive. Having a listing agent tell you there is “multiple interest” or “multiple offers” is also questionable. I have been lied to. As I have blogged before, as a listing agent I specifically discuss the possible scenarios with my sellers and am reluctant to disclose multiple offers and never multiple interest. Unless the multiple offers include at least one that is worthy of being signed, having more than one unacceptable offer means nothing. Multiple interest is nice but, unless it generates any serious offers, so what?

Buyers should be financially qualified before investing too much time in looking at houses and they must know their limitations and comfort level when making an offer. Do they make their “highest and best” or start lower and wait for a “counter-offer”? Buyers are NOT guaranteed a response and they may only get one chance to make an offer. Some buyers refuse to accept that and regret that later. Others go “all in” and think they overpaid, perhaps trying to “re-balance” the offer with inspection results. There are a number of moving parts and explaining them depends on the experience of the Real Estate agent as well as the ability and willingness of the buyer to make a decision they can live with. I end my buyer conversations by telling them that I want them to go to sleep that night feeling that they have done the right thing for themselves. Some buyers lose a bid and take time to get back to looking.

Other than price, which may not be a guarantee of success, there are a number of variables that may impact how a seller evaluates an offer. This becomes more important when there is competition. They include:  amount of deposits, type of financing, seller assists, settlement date, contingencies such as property inspections, whether the buyer has a house to sell and/ or settle and others that may favor some buyers or be a disadvantage. It isn’t always about the money and the appraisal may be a concern.

If an asking price or offered price raises concerns about the property appraising, a buyer may want to agree to offset any appraisal issue, if they can, or rely on the other “variables” to make their offer stand out.

Much of this back and forth relies on having the best information, although buyers and sellers will always want to know more than they do, and using what you know as best you can. That being said, failing to accept that your offer was not accepted is unfortunate. If the agent did not properly counsel their client or if the client did not listen to the advice, failure is an option. Some of the lingering feeling will be related to how the listing agent handled the process. Did they advise the agent who represented the buyers who bid and lost or did they learn that someone else got the house by seeing the MLS status changed?

If a buyer goes into a bidding situation expecting to lose, whatever they think may well become how they view the outcome. That is a shame. However, broadcasting that feeling does nothing to advance their future options. When an agent makes reckless claims about why their buyer client lost, that may well affect their ability to work with other listing agents going forward.

Let me be specific. Discrimination sucks and has no place in society. Sellers have every right to negotiate and make decisions based on objective needs. Suppose a seller accepts a lower offer with a better settlement date or some other variation? How do those who offered more money feel? Do the differences get discussed or does the losing agent or buyer make reckless claims?

If a buyer or their agent feels that the result was based on discrimination, what makes them feel that way? There are several ways sellers may “think” they know things about the buyer beyond what they offered. The most obvious one is that they saw each other at a showing. I prefer that sellers leave their homes during showings. This is complicated by agents not showing up and not canceling their appointment as sellers may be reluctant to leave especially in bad weather. That is a separate issue. I like to avoid having buyers write “love letters” or supply additional information meant to entice a seller as what they provide may be perceived as hurting them. I like to avoid buyers and sellers meeting each other or getting more familiar than necessary as a Real Estate sale is a BUSINESS TRANSACTION so I like to avoid anything that may make the participants think otherwise.

I do not know how many buyers felt that discrimination caused them to lose a bid. I do not know how many pursued that feeling in court. Of those who felt that way, how many could prove it? Perception may affect reality but that does not mean it is a fact.

In closing, making an offer to buy Real Estate is NOT retail. It has many moving parts and generally requires the use of professionals. Buyers and sellers are human and, therefore, imperfect. Agents are human as well. Putting people into what is typically an emotional decision justified with logic can be complicated. Losing is frustrating especially when a buyer loses offer after offer or a seller’s property stays on the market week after week.

It would be nice to know EXACTLY why the process stalled. Regardless, I think society too often resorts to claims of discrimination when someone did not get what they wanted or felt entitled to. Fearing being accused of discrimination may have untold consequences.

Remember, when it comes to buying or selling what is likely your biggest asset and your largest overall investment of money, time and effort,

There is no time for inexperience, empty promises or false expectations!

HIRE WISELY:  We are notall the same”!

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